Breaking up is NOT the easiest thing to do... EVEN when YOU are the one making the decision...

I broke up with HIM

He doesn't understand why.

I told him it was because I wasn't in love with him and I was lying to myself by trying to convince myself of being in love...

NOTE: if you aren't in love with someone from the start of you dating them, YOU ARE NOT IN LOVE WITH THEM!!! You probably NEVER will be either...

But there is something else that I should have also mentioned to him...

My mind and passion was in it definately.. but my heart never was

I like the IDEA of being in love, and that is where we all are mistaken, we listen to our minds and lust rather than our hearts , which can lead to the biggest heartache of them all...

NOTE to readers: if you are victims to this... BREAK UP WITH THEM NOW or you will be married eventually and feel obligated to stay with them because of your children or it could lead to the biggest heartaches of them all...

Good Luck